Many people use the word “grow” in a nurturing way. But growing is actually quite one dimensional. It only goes in one direction. And anything that theoretically can go on forever is neither realistic nor healthy for humans. Humans are not lines. They are circles. Or rather, they go in circles and every time they notice they’re running another lap around the circle, it’s them arriving at a deeper realizations of self. They are on a journey of “becoming oneself more”.